This may come as a shock to many in this community, but I do not consider myself to be a part of the Tradlife movement. Of course, there are many great things about the Trad movement and I agree with about 90% of their ideas and goals. But after lurking on Trad forums for some time, I am ashamed to say that I find many Trad folks to be incredibly arrogant and self righteous. This is especially true among Trad women.
I have personally seen many Tradwives treat other women like shit. A lot of times, a young woman will come into a Tradgirl circle on the internet because she is curious about the movement and is considering becoming a more submissive girlfriend to her man. But many Tradwives will end up berating the woman because of, in my opinion, stupid reasons. I really think a lot of the ladies in the Trad movement honestly think that you must dress like a 1950s housewife in order to be properly under the authority of your husband.
I don't care about any of that stuff. A woman's mentality is what makes her truly Trad, not her clothing or her musical choices or whatever. And that's another reason I created this group. So that people who are curious about traditional lifestyles could come here without being judged.....judged either because of the things I just mentioned, or judged because he or she is not doing her marriage excactly like the rest of them are doing theirs.
Now, there's some wonderful people in the Trad community. In fact, I believe that my #1 moderator, @ariawhite. considers herself to be part of Tradlife. But Aria would never act in that manner. I know this because I observed her for a long time before I ever reached out to her.
The bottom line is that we are all in agreement that the man is the head of the household, and therefore are all traditional. All the other stuff is a matter of personal preference and shouldn't be used to look down on other traditionalists.
I have a dream to introduce college students to the Trad/Domestic Discipline lifestyle eventually. But I could never introduce college kids to half the people in the Trad community because the self righteousness within it will scare them off. So this is a place where everyone who wants to explore traditional relationships can come. All religions, wall walks of life ect......
The Traditional Domestic Discipline group is not about spanking, nor is it about creating some weird competiton where everyone tries to "out-trad" each other. It's about building real community based upon a core belief
INTRODUCTION AND RULES:
This is a Domestic Discipline friendly (or DD friendly) community for those who believe in the relationship style now known as Domestic Discipline. Big tech censorship has hit many of us very hard, and the Domestic Discipline community is feeling the effects. So I created a space here where those in the DD lifestyle can interact freely. There is no charge for membership. And for just $5 a month, you can post, comment and interact without fear of being suddenly banned or censored.
In a Domestic Discipline relationship, the man is the authority. He is to treat his woman with love and kindness. He does, however, have the right to set rules for her. And he does have the right to discipline her, including the use of spanking, when she breaks the rules one too many times.
I desire to create a unique vibe with this community. That is, a vibe that comes from our members willingness to get to know each other as people. The majority of the content in DD groups revolves around spanking ...
