INTRODUCTION AND RULES:
This is a Domestic Discipline friendly (or DD friendly) community for those who believe in the relationship style now known as Domestic Discipline. Big tech censorship has hit many of us very hard, and the Domestic Discipline community is feeling the effects. So I created a space here where those in the DD lifestyle can interact freely. There is no charge for membership. And for just $5 a month, you can post, comment and interact without fear of being suddenly banned or censored.
In a Domestic Discipline relationship, the man is the authority. He is to treat his woman with love and kindness. He does, however, have the right to set rules for her. And he does have the right to discipline her, including the use of spanking, when she breaks the rules one too many times.
I desire to create a unique vibe with this community. That is, a vibe that comes from our members willingness to get to know each other as people. The majority of the content in DD groups revolves around spanking alone. In fact, spanking is just about all that is ever discussed. Because of this, our groups tend to die out quickly. But I want this community to be a place where our brothers and sisters in the DD community can talk about all manner of subjects and interests. And in so doing, we may develop real bonds and friendships.
All conversational topics are allowed here, excepting porn and illegal activity. Biblical subjects, sports, and even what you had for dinner are all fair game 😀. Of course, there will be plenty of DD related discussion. But your every post does not have to be DD related.
With all that said, here are the Forum Rules.
1) Absolutely, positively no talk about the spanking of children, unless theres context to it. Even then, it should only be mentioned in passing, as part of a longer conversation about something else.
2) No abortion talk. Discussions about abortion all but guarantee that fights will take place. And I want to avoid that. I am actually open to relaxing this rule in the future. But I want to observe how group members interact with each other about first.
3) Do not tell unmarried couples that they cannot practice CDD. Some of you believe that this lifestyle is only for the married. Others believe that all committed couples can practice it. But the Bible is silent on this subject. Therefore, none of us have any right to look down on others in the lifestyle. Nor do we have the right to accuse others of violating Scripture because of this. All CDD couples are to be treated as equals in this group, married or not.
4) Talk with sexual innuendo to it will be allowed, but should be limited. Some of you believe that CDD has sexual elements at its core. I personally don't believe that, but I respect the fact that some of you do. So I will allow talk about the sexual aspects you see in regards to CDD, however I will not allow them to become the focus of this group.
5) Rule 5 is a mismash of the usual rules in these groups. No flaming, no intentional disrespect to other members, no private messages to other members without permission ect ect.........
6) I suggest using an alias, but do not require it. So I guess this one is more of a suggestion than an actual rule.
7) I am open to changing and modifying and adding rules based upon the suggestions of those who have moderated these groups in the past. I understand that there are things I don't know about running a group like this. So I am open to hearing suggestions from those of you who have run CDD groups on Facebook and such.
8) No DD/LG, BDSM, or other such dynamics. This is not a spanking fantasy group.
9) Finally, I just wanted to make sure everyone reads this section of the Locals rulebook. Now, I understand that most of you are respectful and will not upload intentionally pornographic images. But there's nuances to these rules that you must know about. For the record, I wholeheartedly agree with these rules.
I don't want many real life images shared here anyway. Once in a while, it's fine. But too many of them will scare people off that are truly seeking information about the CDD lifestyle. The CDD community is by no means a fetish or fantasy community.
" (iv) content that meets our definition of sexual activity including: Images of visible genitalia, actual or implied sexual activity, fetish content, unless any of the following conditions exist: content was posted in a a) satirical or humorous context, b) educational or scientific context, c) imagery is not sufficiently detailed and only body shapes or contours are visible, d) women actively engaged in breast-feeding, e) photos of post-mastectomy scarring, f) photographs of paintings, sculptures, and other art that depict nude figures. v)"
That's all for now. I will add to and/or modify these rules as needed. That said, welcome to the group
This is a discipline description of a recent spanking session I gave. It is based on an audio recording, so it is more accurate than some:
https://www.spankingyourwife.com/2024/08/23/spanked-for-speeding/