If you poll the average woman on the street, almost all of them will say that they "like" spanking. YouTube is full of videos where people ask college girls about it, and almost all of them approve of being spanked. I note that they are discussing fun or sexual spankings in those contexts, but I say this to make a point.
Most women who tell you that they "like spanking" will also tell you that they hate being spanked when it is actually happening. What this tells me is that it's not the spanking itself that turns women on sexually. The spanking itself sucks. What actually turns the woman on is to be in the presence of a guy who is willing to spank her.
Spanking is not a fetish. Wanting to eat chocolate off someone's chest is a fetish. Wanting to be tickled in bed is a fetish. Spanking doesn't qualify. Spanking is something that connects to so many parts of a woman's being that it's almost ridiculous that it is placed in the fetish category.
But the problem is that spanking is billed as a fetish, so it gets compartmentalized in a woman's mind as such. This is why a woman who "likes" to be spanked can get so easily offended by the concept of Domestic Discipline. What an odd society we live in lol
Women don't even realize that the reason they "like" to be spanked is because it hits all their emotional triggers when done correctly. It provides cleansing and a feeling of safety and security. Not to mention a bazillion other emotional and personal benefits. You don't get those benefits from a fetish. Fetishes are purely sexual. There is something about spanking that reaches the inner depths of a womans mind and soul that few other actions can duplicate.
I have asked many women how they can claim to like spanking while at the same time hate it when they are actually being spanked. But because leftist indoctrination is so engrained in us these days, these women can't see the truth
INTRODUCTION AND RULES:
This is a Domestic Discipline friendly (or DD friendly) community for those who believe in the relationship style now known as Domestic Discipline. Big tech censorship has hit many of us very hard, and the Domestic Discipline community is feeling the effects. So I created a space here where those in the DD lifestyle can interact freely. There is no charge for membership. And for just $5 a month, you can post, comment and interact without fear of being suddenly banned or censored.
In a Domestic Discipline relationship, the man is the authority. He is to treat his woman with love and kindness. He does, however, have the right to set rules for her. And he does have the right to discipline her, including the use of spanking, when she breaks the rules one too many times.
I desire to create a unique vibe with this community. That is, a vibe that comes from our members willingness to get to know each other as people. The majority of the content in DD groups revolves around spanking ...
